31 Signs You’re a Seduction Nerd

You’re a nerd? At least you’re not an alcoholic, pothead, cocaine slave, or pumping meth in your veins. Thus probably also less likely to be on Psych meds. Why not direct your nerdiness towards a hobby like seduction or pickup? Not a bad idea, it’ll boost your social life and confidence, while helping you own the nerd inside.

Decide for yourself which of these factors are positive or negative. Then count how many “Yes” responses you got.

You don’t use drugs or alcohol

If you can build state and good feelings from within instead of requiring booze or drugs, then it’s obviously a positive.

Prefer hanging out with other seducers

You spend a lot of time with seducers and pickup artists, instead of chilling with guys outside the seduction community. You immediately feel a strong bond with players, PUA’s and other seduction nerds. You have a lot in common. You can discuss your favorite PUA coaches, techniques, and your own experiences.

You’ll go out of your way to meet another wingman, especially if it’s a more experienced guy. Nice, but don’t forget: It’s also important to be able to connect with social guys who aren’t PUA’s or seducers.

Theory junkie

You love being coached in seduction, doing boot camps, seminars, and buying new online seduction courses. Great, but try to become more self-reliant as well. As opposed to perpetually relying on coaches. Or buying the latest seduction programs, and getting your latest theory fix by watching seduction videos on the internet. You have to spend the time outside of your house to implement your existing knowledge.

If a large part of your income always goes towards seduction programs without getting any results, then you’re a theory junkie, and you may be a seduction nerd.

You want to coach seduction

You reinforce your own knowledge by coaching other men. The main criteria to decide if this is good or bad: As long as you’re getting the infield results to back up what you’re teaching, it’s all good.

You love discussing seducing women

There’s nothing wrong with discussing seduction with your wings or friends. It’s the reason you are a pickup artist and not a drug addict, alcoholic or shallow egotist. Seduction is a form of self-improvement. If you ever get shamed for being into self-improvement, then congratulate yourself. You’re fucking awesome.

You like green smoothies

Green smoothies are very popular in the seduction community. It may be the only straight male community whom openly love this stuff. You’re a seduction nerd but much more awesome (and healthier) than most people. Turmeric and wheatgrass shots are also popular options.

Use two or more dating apps simultaneously

You can split test your dating profiles this way. Otherwise, you widen the net to see if you can draw in one or two extra, interesting types of “fish”… But don’t be obsessed with online dating, also do cold approach.

You know the lingo

You gotta know the lingo before you can play the game effectively. For example: PUA (pickup artist), LMR (last minute resistance), IOI (indicator of interest), IOD (indicator of disinterest), HB10 (hot babe, 10 on a scale of 1 to 10), AMOG (Alpha male of the group), Cock Block, etc..

Travel more than 100 km’s to a seduction workshop

In fact, you’d think up any excuse, and go out of your way, to meet a mentor in person and attend a workshop. You’re passionate about social skills. Others are passionate about hard drugs or heavy liquor. You’re obviously way more awesome.

You understand the different techniques and camps in game

And you have your own preference.. However, forget for a moment about what companies teach the best methods. Instead, appreciate that there are different schools of thought to follow. We all learn and assimilate information in a unique way. For example: Direct or Indirect; Mystery method or Tyler Durden; Running Routines or doing Improvisation.

You spread the love of game

You’ve tried at least once to introduce a male friend to seduction. Or you’ve watched seduction videos with a girlfriend. Otherwise, you’ve tried to organize a get-together of seducers or PUA’s. With or without success, doesn’t matter – it’s the idea that counts.

 

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At some point you typed into a search engine: “How to pick up girls”

Or a derivation thereof. This is where we all start. Congratulate yourself for taking a step in the right direction. Celibacy won’t get you kids (or a family) of your own. There is a Manosphere with blogs and content specifically written for men. You don’t ever again need to read anything written for a gay or female audience, that’ll turn you into a gender-confused pussy who never dates girls.

Sure, some of the manosphere content is misogynistic, e.g. taking creep-shots of your girl during sex. But you can’t judge the manosphere as a whole by the behavior of a few. At Nice Guy Seduction, we encourage treating women with respect.

Game becomes a sport like other sports

Game has its own terminology, set of rules, and techniques to help you excel. Don’t get red-carded, and remember the spirit of the game. However, if you see game as a sport, then you may be a seduction nerd.

You investigate the effects of substances on your game

If you’re this much into game, you have the potential to become a great player. Mental state can be altered. But keep it all natural, plant-based and no illegal chemical drugs.

You don’t care if anyone knows you’re into game

They have weird hobbies and interests themselves. Screw their bias. What better passion exists than self-improvement?

Spend whole Friday night with a cute nerdy girl

Instead of spending the night with hand lotion and porn. Seduction nerds love attractive nerdy girls (and vice versa). For example the librarian or book nerd stereotype.

You’ve read The Game by Neil Strauss

In the Manosphere, who hasn’t? Reading The Game by itself won’t make you good with women though. You could still experience serious approach anxiety for many years after reading a book like this. Especially without real-life mentors.

You know all the most famous PUA’s and Seducers by name

For example, Roosh V, Mark Manson, Tyler, Mystery, Neil Strauss, Alex Social, and Kong (Simple Pickup). Maybe some of them know you by name as well as their coaching client.

You always have condoms with you

You want to avoid STD’s. But you take it one step further by taking condoms with you pretty much everywhere you go. To the gym, while going grocery shopping, getting food down the road, going to class at university or running another errand. However, you may be onto something: Better safe than sorry.

You’re brainy, thus often overthink

Smart guys can sometimes trip themselves up mentally before they even approach. Or somewhere else down the relationship pipeline. Often the smartest guys suck with women. But once you start letting your genius work for you instead of against you, you can eventually become more successful than anyone else.

Some theories of game suggest dumbing yourself down to attract girls. The theory is that jocks simply plow ahead mindlessly, thus create more attraction in women. Not suggesting that dumbing yourself down is a good idea, or plowing without getting any indicators of interest (IOI’s). But trying to use your high IQ to attract women isn’t the best strategy. Women don’t respond logically or intellectually to romantic advances. Instead, it’s an emotional feeling that she wants to experience. A jock can easily create this feeling. But if you are a genius, you simply have to learn to balance your brainy side by being more masculine and social.

You see through the bullshit and lies of modern society pop culture

The media brainwashes us into shallow lives of booze, drugs, bad diets, as well as worshipping of often mentally ill, drug-addict celebs. Instead, it would be more worthwhile to spend your time with self-development, career, healthy friendships, fitness and some form of education. You don’t have to, but the price to pay for mainstream media addiction is low self-esteem.

You love joining every seduction group you find on social media

Well, at least those with more than 100 members. Even though you barely have time for 10% of them.

You used to have much more cringe-worthy hobbies than seduction and self-improvement

For example, before learning Game your hobbies were:

• Playing video games
• Reading comic books
• Dungeons & Dragons
• Trying to move coins with your mind
• Cigarette party tricks
• Beer pong
• Fencing
• Magic card tricks
• Chess
• Reading feminine fiction novels or
• Watching series.

You study game and seduction as much as women do

Women’s magazines and blogs are full of tips and tricks on how to seduce men. They read this type of articles from a young age. While men are supposed to magically have Jedi-level social skills with the opposite sex from birth.

In the end, most men end up heavy drinking or doing drugs like marijuana for confidence, while some of them also abuse their girlfriends. Then understandably the woman complains. However, hot girls usually fall for the stereotypical “bad-boy”. The same women who’d date bad boys, drug addicts, and alcoholics, would complain about the seduction seminars teaching men sober confidence.. If not, they complain about the lack of social skills in modern men. Not easy being a man.

Can they complain, for once, about their bad own behavior in falling for “bad boys”? If it wasn’t for the Manosphere blogs written for a male-specific audience, a lot of relatively good guys would still be virgins.

You flush condoms down the toilet after sex to avoid the girl stealing your cum

Seduction nerd level 11/10… But potentially also genius and wise depending on who the girl is.

You maintain Excel spreadsheets for your results with women

Not sayin’ it won’t help your game a lot. Some of us are more statistically inclined. And if that’s you, go for it.

You keep a notebook online for Seduction

There are plenty of great apps available for this, e.g. Evernote and Simplenote (my 2 favorites) or Onenote (which sucks since it’s made by microsoft). The notebook can be subdivided into separate subnotes for daygame, nightgame, online game, and textgame. Containing random pieces of advice you jot down for yourself to refer to from time to time.

Meditation, Meditation, Meditation

You either proclaim the virtues of meditation, or you aspire to meditate more frequently. Once in a while you remember meditating, and if you’re lucky you’ll get through your meditation session without falling asleep. Keep it up.

At some point you got into trouble for your love of seduction

Sometimes you deserve trouble, sometimes you don’t. I can think of a few scenarios:

1. Getting caught trying to film hidden camera pickup footage on private property
2. Accidentally being too verbally direct in an uncalibrated way
3. Trying to pick up a girl, and getting physical too quickly (again.. uncalibrated). Moments later her body-builder boyfriend arrives threatening to beat you up.

Loudest mouth, least experience

This refers to being that irritating guy on the whatsapp or facebook group who has the loudest mouth, yet is still basically either a virgin or slept with less than three or four women his whole life. Not referring to the guy with sincere questions or comments, but otherwise, it’s obviously a negative seduction nerd characteristic. You got the passion though, which means you can succeed eventually if you focus on improving your game instead of randomly chipping into every whatsapp conversation about game.

And lastly…

You start a Seduction Blog

Welcome to the seduction nerd fraternity. You get laid plenty. But you never compromise on your core values of self-respect and respect to others. You barely ever get drunk or use drugs. You can pinpoint all the errors of modern society. But society is too busy getting drunk or stoned… Or hating on seduction nerds like you due to their own insecurities & inadequacies.

Conclusion

If you responded “yes” to more than half of the above, then you’re a seduction nerd. However, if you’re not getting good results yet, then you need coaching to go from basic “Nerd” to advanced “Seduction Nerd” level.

Add some of your own indicators below in the comments section of what you consider to be a seduction nerd. Plus, do you consider being a pickup nerd as a negative or positive?