The Ultimate Guide to Meeting Women in Cape Town (South Africa)

Cape Town (South Africa) is Africa’s most popular tourist destination. The city competes with for example the Egyptian pyramids, and the wild-life game excursions [a totally different type of game than what we’re gonna talk about in this post]. Female travelers to Cape Town love meeting the local men. Thus why shouldn’t you do the same and meet a bunch of cute local girls while visiting the Cape.

Cape Town Girls

In Cape Town, you’ll find white, black and coloured (mixed race) women. All the girls in Cape Town understand English, while most of the white and coloured women also speak Afrikaans, a language similar to and derived from Dutch. The black girls mostly speak African languages such as Xhosa, along with English.

According to the Western Cape government, the gender ratio in the Cape is 51% female and 49% male. Thus, in theory there’s at least 1 woman for every man. Plus an extra side-chick for the top 1% alpha males (joke).

White Cape Town Women

The white girls are descendants of European settlers dating back as far as 1652.  They can be subdivided into English white and Afrikaner white. With these girls, it is helpful to not be too direct. For example, your friends overseas may be texting women to come over for sex where there isn’t much doubt about what’s going to go down. But if you’re texting a white Afrikaans girl, she’ll simply unmatch or block you immediately (if you haven’t met before). These women expect you to be subtle. For example, you can invite her for wine, and take it from there. But don’t mention anything related to “getting naked together”.

In day and nightgame, it’s also recommended to be indirect, or only direct in a friendly way – e.g. you can say “I find you damn sexy, or hot/attractive/cute/etc.” But don’t tell her “you’re so hot, let’s go have sex right now” – This only works if the girl is either very drunk or if you’ve already talked for a couple of hours. Even then, it’s better to follow the subtle approach where you simply take her home for wine or coffee and see where it goes.

If the girl is of an English background, they tend to be slightly less prudish sexually. The stereotype is also that Afrikaans girls are rural and more conservatively raised, while the English girls are more likely to be city girls, with more liberal values. Although stereotypes can sometimes be inaccurate, this specific stereotype I’ve found to be true more often than not.

However, even with the liberal English white girls, I’d hesitate going very direct, if you know that you can accomplish exactly the same by being subtle. The main thing is to pre-screen well on dating apps. Don’t date a conservative girl and expect first night sex. If you screen too aggressively, then *boom* UNMATCHED. If she explicitly tells you that she’s only using Tinder to expand her social circle (and not for dating), then you do risk wasting time with her. Of course you can still blow her away on the date. But she may also simply be looking for male validation by getting you to show up on a date (while also scoring free drinks if you’re a simp).

Either way, you have to develop a gut-feel for the type of women you’re meeting in this part of South Africa.

Coloured Women of Cape Town

Although my preference is white girls, here are my observations on black and colored women. The colored girls are of mixed racial heritage. Their forefathers include Europeans, indigenous Africans and Malaysian slaves. You can be more direct with these girls. They tend to be less sexually conservative and prudish than the white girls. Looking at text messages that some of my wings have gotten from these girls – if you can instill some humor in your texting then you can be subtly sexual. Thus you should be able to pre-screen very effectively without putting the girl off.

Black Women

The black girls generally know what they want sexually, and if you’re a foreigner you’ll have a lot of extra value as you’ll appear exotic to these women. Most would agree that the black girls are the most promiscuous girls in South Africa (if you disagree, comment below).

Judging by my wingmen’s experiences, you don’t have to waste time being indirect with black girls. Tell her you like her – and what you like about her. Take them out on dates, and they’ll open up sexually to you very quickly. It all depends on your own preference. Some dudes prefer black girls, some mixed, some Asians, and some white girls.

Cape Town Nightlife

Nightgame is decent in the Cape, depending on the season. Winter is quieter since it gets rainy and cold.

The Capetonian nightlife is mostly found in Long Street, the parallel adjacent Loop Street and Bree Street, as well as Kloof Street. In these areas, there are a lot of clubs, ranging from very shady (Long Street) to upmarket (Kloof Street).

Especially in Long Street and Loop Street, you need to watch your pockets at all times while walking at night. In fact, keep both your hands in your pockets to have a strong grip on your phone and wallet. Don’t let anyone distract you by “accidentally” bumping into you (like what happened in this field report).

Clubs start to get busy at 10pm and continue unto around 3am. While earlier in the night, around 8pm to 9pm, is mostly only social circle game.

Long Street

You could theoretically do street-game in Long Street, but you’ll continuously be bothered by hookers, beggars, and pickpockets. At night, street-game in Cape Town is not that good. Luckily, none of the nightclubs in this area have entrance fees more than a few bucks.

Some clubs want specifically richer foreign guests, thus they raise entrance fees to around R100. Either way, don’t linger around outside on Long Street. Look in front of you, cellphone hidden away, and walk to your chosen club. So I’m saying this for your safety, but at the same time, I want to admit that I have gotten some action from street-game in Long street. However, getting action inside of the clubs is more likely than outside.

The golden rule is to be sober when you’re walking in Long Street. Otherwise, let your ride pick you up right outside the club.

In Long try out Dubliner, Fiction, Beerhouse, Waiting Room, and 169 on Long (an African club), amongst others. Dubliner has two floors, plus a bit of a reputation for “easier girls” – but it’s not always busy. Beerhouse is decent for pre-game, but the clubbing vibe only starts at 10 pm. Waiting Room is one of those more expensive clubs at around R100 entrance fee for men. I haven’t been to Fiction lately, but they’ve also got multiple floors, and stay open until 4am.

In between Long and Loop street, there’s the small and cozy Tjing Tjing Rooftop bar. You’ll find it on the city map at the bottom of this post.

Loop Street

In Loop street the most popular club is Village Idiot. It has free entry (only before 11pm weekends) and is a nice place to go if you’re in your late twenties and don’t want to party with 19-year-olds. Next, Coco has been around for many years as well. It’s an upmarket RnB type of club. Not my kinda scene, but perhaps the right place to meet an upper class black girl in the heart of Cape Town.

Modular is a underground late-night techno club, in a side-street from Loop Street. It’s basically a square room with a dance floor in one corner, a bar in the other corner, seating space in the 3rd corner, and a standing chill area and 2nd bar in the last corner. Being dark and noisy inside, its Cape Town’s answer to Berlin’s Techno scene. However, its without the open drug use you’ll find in Berlin’s clubs. Nevertheless, photos aren’t allowed – maybe simply to keep the club mysterious to outsiders. Entrance fee is R150.

Seapoint

This ain’t a nightclub area, but there used to be a small club called Decodance playing 80’s and 90’s music – now closed and relocated to Woodstock. In 2023, there are only social circle bars and restaurants in Seapoint (closing relatively early). Meanwhile, Salsa is an option at the Mojo Market for some LatAm long-arm dancing Sunday nights.

Bree Street Area

Arcade Nightclub is easy to find in Bree Street. It’s worth checking out Fridays and Saturdays. On the other side of Bree Street, there’s a few more small bars like the Station On Bree. Then there’s Love Thy Neighbor and Hanks – quite good when it’s good. House of Machines is also close by in a side-street – average place for pickup, but it has socializing potential.

Lemme also mention The Athletic Club & Social at Buitengracht Street. This is not a student hangout, which is probably how you prefer things if you’re 30+. Other bars in this area include ZsaZsa – with its very high entrance fees.

Kloof Street

Public House Nightclub burned down end-2021. They moved up the road and re-opened in 2023. Different kinda vibe currently – more social circle.

Get a drink down the road at Yours Truly Kloof. Or at the Up Yours Bar, right above, on the 1st floor. Otherwise at one of the many other bars in Kloof street, e.g. the Wolf House (social circle – not clubbing). Up Yours Bar has a good party vibe at night, but they close earlier at around 11pm (at the latest midnight), since there are hostel dorm rooms right above them.

Another new party option in this area is The Moveable Feast (Kloofnek Road). It’s on the first floor of a building, with a regular bar The Power & The Glory, on the ground floor. Moveable Feast gets packed week-ends. There’s also a nice small dance area.

The best strategy for Kloof street is simply to walk through the whole street, which connects with Long Street. Then see which place you like for that particular night.

District Six / East City / Woodstock

Another option for weekends is Harrington’s club in Harrington’s street. The negative is it’s too dodgy to walk there at night.. However, there’s decent parking in the streets all around. It has a nice dance floor Saturdays and Fridays, plus a quiet balcony for conversing. The crowd is older than in the Long street area – late 20s, early 30s. Entrance fee is R50, simply to ensure you spend something at their place.

There’s a pre-game bar next to Harrington’s: SurfaRosa. On some nights, e.g. Halloween, it all opens up and you pay one ticket for both clubs.

A little deeper into the shady parts of the city, Decodance re-opened in Woodstock. This Dive bar used to be fun in Sea Point. Currently, I’d only recommend the Woodstock Decodance if you’re into cougars in their late 40s. But lets see what happens.

Weekday Nights (and Sunday) in Cape Town

Sunday nights in Summer, Cafe Caprice at the Camps Bay beachfront is a solid option. In season, from September/October to March/April, it can get very crowded. If you arrive after 8h30pm, there may be long lines and waiting times. Try to show up at 8 pm.

If you are willing to drive to Claremont, visit Boogie or Tin Roof for two more weekend clubbing options. This area is also busy on Thursday nights in the university semester, as Thursday is student night (and the University of Cape Town is a stone’s throw away). If you prefer central Cape Town, another Thursday option is Village Idiot – which is free most Thursdays, but R50 on weekends entrance fee.

Wednesday nights are usually good for Observatory Stones. Lately in 2022, there’s also been busier Wednesday nights at Club 169 in Long Street, with foreign backpackers partying.

Tuesdays there used to be Karaoke nights in Camps Bay, but no more. The new option is Asoka, a relatively small bar in the trendy Kloof Street. In Summer, there can be a long queue in front on Tuesday nights at around 11pm.

Monday Nights most bars are shut. It’s the hardest night of the week to find some life. You can still walk through Kloof and Long street and maybe you’ll find a small party somewhere.

First Thursdays

On the first Thursday of every month, a popular social option is First Thursdays. On this evening, from about 5h30pm, the streets in central Cape Town are closed off, while vagrants are evacuated to soup kitchens outside the city center. La Parada in Bree Street is a good starting point to get a drink. Then walk down to the Honey Badger bar in Loop Street for a younger backpacker crowd. Finish off in Church Street’s art galleries, and get a complimentary glass of wine. Then go back to La Parada to finish off the night, as they also got a nice dance floor, hidden away at their basement.

Love Thy Neighbor and Hanks, across the road from La Parada, are solid options as well. Plus, if you’re streetwise, explore Bree Street even more, as it’ll be livelier than any other day of the month.

Cape Town Daygame

For daygame, the local Cape Town guys go to the V&A waterfront to meet women. On Saturday’s, they go to e.g. the Old Biscuit Mill Market. Sundays you’ll find a few more food markets in and around Cape Town. Another mall you could visit is the Cavendish Square, which is frequented by students of the University of Cape Town (UCT), along with older Capetonians.

UCT has a great campus for daygame, if you study there. However, it’s mostly a closed-off campus. Thus, you could probably visit your friends at UCT’s campus. But otherwise, it’s basically private property, reserved for students.

During the week, you’ll find women walking around in central Cape Town e.g. Long street (the “CBD”). But it’s not huge for daygame. Neither is Sea Point. However, you’ll often notice a few cute girls strolling along the Sea Point Promenade in the afternoon. Still, overall, the city center of Cape Town is more a place where you can co-incidentally meet women while e.g. sightseeing, or going to one of the unique African restaurants. It’s not a daygame mecca, like some European cities in the Summer.

De Waterkant is a tourist-friendly semi-residential neighborhood inbetween SeaPoint and the CBD. It’s known as a gay neighborhood. Thus, I wouldn’t go clubbing in De Waterkant, but you’ll get a stylish haircut in that area. There may be one or two cute sophisticated girls walking outside by day, or at the Cape Quarter Lifestyle Village.

I often walk past Green Market Square in central Cape Town by day. This is an area which some tourists like to check out for e.g. African souvenirs. Thus you’ll notice a few cute girls there. But they’ll be less open to be approached, since there are many vagrants, and potentially pick-pockets, in this area.

Also check out Kloof street, as its a hipster area with vintage clothing stores, wellness shopping and dining. As well as the Bohemian area – “Observatory” (in short “Obs”) with it’s Lower Main Road – for a stroll and getting a drink or lunch.

Moreover, during Summer, the beaches at Camps Bay and Clifton are great places to chill, especially during weekends (you could also attempt some beachgame). This neighborhood has the best beaches in all of Cape Town and its suburbs. However, during Winter, Camps Bay tends to be boring.

For fun (and fitness), go hike up Lion’s Head, Table mountain, or Devil’s peak. Or take your girlfriend for some skinny dipping at Sandy Bay – Cape Town’s only official nude beach.

Which Cape Town Neighborhood To Stay

There are a handful of quality, affordable accommodation choices in Cape Town. As a hostel, I’d recommend Never At Home in Kloof Street, formerly known as “Once In Cape Town”. This hostel is very close to the nightlife area and has the lively bar (“Yours Truly”) right outside – good for pre-gaming. Before Airbnb, I used to stay in this hostel when I visited Cape Town. Because it’s close to Long Street, and had a lot of free activities e.g. hiking and seeing the city. These outings are great opportunities to get to know cute girls who stay in the hostel with you. Plus, there’s a good outside common area behind the reception which is only accessible to guests. If you don’t meet any girls in this hostel, then you simply don’t have game.

Some tourists do prefer to stay in areas like Greenpoint and Seapoint instead. But Seapoint is a little far out from the action. While Greenpoint, similar to De Waterkant, is somewhat notorious as a “gay neighborhood”. Greenpoint is upmarket, but its also more sketchy and dangerous at night to walk from your accommodation to the nightclubs. The plus of Greenpoint, is that its closer to the Waterfront Shopping Mall.

On the other hand, the CBD (“Central Business District”) of Cape Town is close to everything, but it can be a noisy, dirty area to stay (also a little dangerous at night). In some of those Airbnb’s and hostels you’ll barely get any sleep.

However, I rate the neighborhoods next to Kloof Street quite highly, such as Gardens. It’s next to the CBD, but at the same time, outside the irritating nightclub noise which interferes with sleeping. Gardens Shopping Center, in this area, is not touristic like the Waterfront, but it has a tiny amount of daygame potential as well. A lot of cute local girls live in Gardens and Tamboerskloof.

Northern Suburbs of Cape Town

When you take the N1 highway, and drive inland towards the countryside, you’ll be passing by the Northern Suburbs. This includes towns like Milnerton, Durbanville and Bellville. The first large shopping mall you’ll encounter is Canal Walk. Here and there you may meet an attractive girl, but its very sparse.

Then, driving further along, there’s the N1 City Mall in Goodwood. This one is also bad – here and there a cute girl, but once again, extremely sparse. Next up, in Bellville there’s the Tygervalley Shopping center. The women in this area work in the daytime. There’s very few students and younger girls in their twenties walking around. Thus, expect only a tiny amount of daygame potential.

At night, you could check out Durbanville Stones, Beerhouse Tygervalley or SpeakEasy. For traditional dancing try Nikita’s, or the Afrikaans long-arm dancing “Boer” environment of “Danskraal” in Bellville.

The next mall is Cape Gate in the boring residential Kraaifontein area. There’s not much there. It’s very residential, don’t waste your time. Kraaifontein is the final outpost of the Northern Suburbs of Cape Town.

The following N1 turn-off leads to Stellenbosch, a medium-sized university town with plenty of nightclubs and daygame potential. I wrote a separate Stellenbosch guide (find the link at the bottom of this post).

After that is Paarl – a family town with an agriculture-based economy. At Paarl, you may meet a few girls at Paarl Mall. While nightlife in Paarl happens in pre-existing social circles, there’s no clubbing. The neighboring town, Wellington, has a decent, but very small club: Bella’s Sport and Student Pub. And if you ever venture further out towards Malmesbury, check out AT’s bar (Rainier Street).

Bloubergstrand

Closer to central Cape Town, some backpackers stay in Tableview or Bloubergstrand. But the only reason to stay in this neighborhood, instead of central Cape Town, is if you are into surfing, specifically kite- and windsurfing. This area is less cool for swimming, tanning and regular surfing, because the water is colder and its windier.

Daygame is poor in Bloubergstrand. Walk on the beach promenade or go to one of the shopping malls in this area. But don’t expect much (if anything).

Nightlife is quiet. There’s a handful of bars like Thursty Turtle, He’s Not Here, Board House, Cubana, and Buckley’s Pub. It’s better than nothing.

On the positive side, Blouberg is a fun place to have a date with a girl though. Thanks to many cozy night-time beach-side parking spaces for your car. However, keep the doors locked and still use caution.

The Cape’s Southern Suburbs

The Southern Suburbs is the quieter, but very scenic side of Cape Town. In Muizenberg there used to be a great hostel right outside the train station, Stoked Backpackers (2023 Update: permanently closed). A new Muizies hostel option is Cape Capsules (4.8/5 stars on Google Maps).

From Muizenberg, you can explore this side of town for a couple of days. Enjoy the beaches, but don’t expect much nightlife. There are a bunch of pubs though.

The most popular beginner surfing beach in Cape Town, “Surfers Corner”, is located at Muizenberg. This is specifically for longboard surfing. Apps like MagicSeaWeed (MSW) will give a rough indication of the waves. Otherwise go check the Muizenberg live beach cam at the SA Webcams youtube (can’t link directly to it as they often change the URL). There isn’t great daygame in Muizenberg. For example, the Blue Route Mall in Tokai had no attractive sets when I visited. Lakeside, next to Muizies, also has no sets. Surfer’s Corner is the only spot in this area with a small amount of daygame potential.

If you drive a little further along the coast, you’ll find Fish Hoek, Kalk Bay, Simon’s Town, etc. These are generally sleepy towns, with not much to offer. Except water-sports and a relaxed lifestyle for the families who live there.

In Simon’s Town, apart from the SA military naval base, there’s also the famous penguin beach, Boulder’s Beach. This is one of the better-known tourist attractions in Cape Town. Plus, it’s good territory for diving. The famous 2020 documentary “My Octopus Teacher”, was shot in the waters surrounding Simon’s Town. However, if you’re not into water-sport, don’t waste your time staying in hotels/hostels there. You’ll get bored – a daytrip is more than enough.

From Simonstown, you could drive over the mountain and check out the other side of the Cape Peninsula. First up is Scarborough, a sleepy sea-side village with nothing going on, except the usual water-sport at its windy, chilly beach. Next, there’s Kommetjie. Another sleepy fishing village with sports like kite-surfing. It’s a good life quality if you’re married with children. Otherwise, it’s extremely boring unless you’ve got some kind of job there. Next up along the coast is Houtbay. This is not that far from Camps Bay. But it’s once again simply very residential, and mostly only for families and water-sports. There’s not much more to do except maybe check out the Houtbay Harbour Market on a Sunday if you’re really bored.

Further along the coast, you’ll also find Llandudno, with the millionaire houses along the mountain slopes. It’s a nice beach in mid-Summer. But if it isn’t mid-summer, don’t waste any time there. Finally, you’ll find Camps bay and Clifton – widely accepted as the best beaches of Cape Town. There is one or two more hidden beaches like Bakoven beach. But it’s very small, and mostly only for chilling with a social circle or e.g. your girlfriend.

Transport in Cape Town

  • If you feel adventurous enough to take the train to Muizenberg (or even the one hour journey to Stellenbosch), don’t sit on your own in one of the train cabins. It’s safer to sit in a cabin where there are other normal-looking people around as well. Thieves target empty cabins where you’d be an easy target. Also, don’t use the train when it is dark at night, but only during the daytime. In past few months the security situation is further deteriorating on the trains, so best to check e.g. with your hostel reception before you jump on a train.
  • Bolt is a good pay-per-ride app to use for traveling around in Cape Town (they gave me a nice discount off my first ride recently).
  • To travel to Stellenbosch or other neighboring towns, you could also easily rent a cheap car. Some companies offer discounts on car-rentals for longer periods, e.g. a week or a month, instead of only a few days. But don’t only rely on your Maps App for directions – also use common sense. These apps can lead you to sometimes drive into dangerous areas such as violent squatter camps, as they don’t always give you the safest route.
  • With regards to bus rides (within the city), the “MyCiti Bus” system is worth checking out. It’s more dependable and safer than the trains. This is because it’s managed by the local D.A. government, as opposed to the more corrupt national government mismanaging the trains. The biggest problem with the MyCiti Bus system used to be staff strikes.

Cape Town Online Dating Apps

For paid desktop apps, South Africa used to have options like OKcupid, Zoosk, and DatingBuzz. But online dating in Cape Town is moving away from websites, towards apps. Here’s a few of the best. Find one or two dating apps that suit your personality.

Tinder

This is the most popular app to use in Cape Town. It’s almost getting overcrowded with every single person with a phone, joining the app. Thus, quality goes down. Tinder is definitely not some exclusive app for elite dating. You swipe left more, every year. However, you definitely still swipe right as well. And there’s still solid fun girls to date.

Bumble

A decent second option with less users than Tinder. Girls can have more attitude on Bumble, as they’re deliberately put in control of everything. Women send the first message. However, don’t let this put you off, as I’ve had solid dates on there, as well. It’s very similar to Tinder. But with higher quality women in general, since it’s lesser known, not yet at that detrimental level of mass popularity in the Cape.

Hinge

Hinge is growing in Cape Town. But it’s more complex than Tinder, with more prompts and questions to fill in. It’s got some potential. It’s owned by the same parent company as Tinder, Match Group (the biggest dating company in the world). Thus, they’ve got the money to keep growing.

Although we can criticize Tinder, fact remains they are one of the more honest apps around. And Hinge is more or less the same. They may have membership upgrades. But they’re not massive scammers like e.g. Badoo who will abuse your credit card details.

Interracial Match

In 2024 Interracial Match is also active in South Africa. Thus, if you’d love to meet a chick from another race, this is the right app for you. Here’s the link to create your free profile. If you enjoy the app, convert to paying membership.

InterracialMatch.com - the best interracial dating site!

Victoria Milan

VictoriaMilan is active in Johannesburg/Pretoria, plus of course Europe and other parts of the world. It’s unfortunately not as active in Cape Town.

I post it here anyway as I can’t update this content frequently – unless I promote dating apps which may appeal to some readers. Anyway, don’t cheat on your wife, don’t do secret affairs, but use VictoriaMilan (register here) to find lovers and girlfriends.

December Beach Life

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Clifton Beach: Playground of the rich and famous

 

It’s not a bad idea to get in shape, e.g. at the gym, for the Cape Town beach-life in December. Starting from around November, you can hang out at beaches like Camps Bay almost every day.

However, in December, the universities are closed, thus the students leave Cape Town. Young single women who work during the year, also go on holiday to the coast. There will still be a few attractive girls left in the city center, along with tourists visiting from e.g. Europe. Plus, Camps Bay and Clifton‘s Beaches are still really good (there’s often extreme traffic congestion to these beaches in December and early January).

However, you may be better off visiting South Africa’s coastal beach towns during the December holidays, instead of staying in Cape Town. Camps Bay and surrounding neighborhoods stay cool when the rest of the city runs arid and semi-dry in December.

Another argument is that the influx of cute female tourists in holiday season make up for the out-flux of attractive local women. But it all depends where you can get good accommodation. Hostels get full along the coast in December, as well.

An example of a coastal town within close proximity, is Hermanus (2 hours from central Cape Town). They have a very good backpacker infrastructure, e.g. the Baz Bus for transport, and good hostels. Plus there are one or two busy nightclubs in December: Bojangles and Barney’s Pub. The nice thing about South Africa’s coast during Summer holidays, is you can go out every night of the week. For example, Monday night at Bojangles there would be a party.

However, Hermanus is not the best coastal town to pick up girls. It’s a very residential place, often attracting richer tourists and families instead of backpackers. But follow the Baz Bus route along the coast, and you’re likely to have a very good time overall, in December and January.

Apart from being cool along the coast, January is also my favorite month of the year in Cape Town city center. There’s definitely a frisky vibe in the air with the start of the new year. Weather is great, nightlife (and daygame) picks up more and more (throughout the month), and peaks towards the end of January.

February is still a very touristic month. It’s not as scorching hot weather as January anymore. Plus, there’s good night- and daylife. And of course, everybody is back to work in the City Bowl.

Too see the current situation in one of Cape Town’s Top Beaches (Clifton 4th beach), check out this live webcam:

 

Cape Town Activities For Men

Not all below bar crawls are still available. But I keep the list as is to give an idea what to expect.

Conclusion | Cape Town

In 2023, all the corona scamdemic fake “virus” restrictions have been dropped. Masks are no longer worn, except by a handful of idiots. No toxic jab certificates, and no fake “PCR” tests are needed to enter South Africa. Come and enjoy the Cape.

If you’re a digital nomad, beware of the electricity “load-shedding” a.k.a. commie power cuts. You’ll need a co-working space where they have power generators. Though as a regular tourist, it will not affect you (as much). Because while traveling you’re definitely supposed to spend more time outdoors than indoors.

Enjoy your seduction adventure to the Cape, hopefully this is not the only reason you’re dropping by. As the Afro-Malay-European culture and the natural beauty are better reasons to visit Cape Town.

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9 thoughts on “The Ultimate Guide to Meeting Women in Cape Town (South Africa)”

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    Coloured (Mixed race) women are conservative predominantly staunch Muslim/Christian the opinions of their family and faith leaders make for more family oriented women. Unless impoverished or on drugs they would not usually opt for European tourist. As they have a low opinion of those men. Specifically Dutch & German men! Due to negative experiences
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    Not comment on black girls never tried it.

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    • Thanks for your input.

      We value diverse opinions about Cape Town’s women. Because then the reader can read everything and make up his own mind.

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  2. Great article, thanks so much…are you currently in cape Town and able/ interested in meeting up for daygame? Always looking for wings.

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    • Thanks for the comment. I got your email as well. Will respond tomorrow. I took some time off from the site over Christmas.

      To add to above, also join the Telegram Cape Town Area Group. The link is at the bottom of the article above. If there’s enough members, meetups and groups events can be organized.

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    • Try to travel more & get away from Cape Town. You’ll be surprised how easy it can be to find a girl once you get away from the sexually repressed and cliquey culture which some men experience in Cape Town.

      Cape Town is one of those places that doesn’t suit everyone’s personality. There may be better cities calling your name. Hope this helps ✌🏻

      [Traveling can also make you more interesting and less boring. Being boring can be another reason for you being that sexually needy & desperate.]

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  3. Any suggestions for “old grey foxes” who still game and want to pickup the 40+ women rather they be tourists or locals? I assume any 20-40 year age women would only consider older guys if they are “escorts” or looking for a sugar daddy.

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    • Tinder will be the easiest for older guys.

      But otherwise, you can date 20 to 40 year old girls, but then you should have very good Game. Be in shape, dress well, have a fat wallet (not to pay for sex, but to have an attractive lifestyle), career success, attractive personality, or be very good at a particular hobby or sport, all these things will up your chances of scoring 20 to 40 year old women. And even 40+.

      I wouldn’t even acknowledge the existence of escorts, or girls looking for sugar daddies.
      Because I’ve experienced that simply being your best self, can get you results with regular girls. So you never need to pay if you work hard on self-improvement. Plus get a coach – if necessary.

      It definitely can be harder when you reach 60+ years of age. But then you simply gotta work harder on self-improvement, fitness, etc. Some girls have a kink for older men.

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