The Nice Guy’s Guide to Meeting Women in Lima, Peru

This Lima (Peru) Dating guide is divided into Online, Day- and Nightgame. It includes a few short field reports to demonstrate that you can meet women wherever you go, with the right attitude. It’s mostly aimed at visitors to Lima and not locals. If you want to learn more about gaming in the slums and the most dangerous neighborhoods, notorious for drug gangs and crime, don’t look to this guide for advice. It’s best to stick to safe areas such as Miraflores and Barranco.

Anyway, grab a drink, sit back and enjoy the post.

Lima Online Dating Scene

Online game in Lima has huge potential since its such a large city. The average girl was not necessarily immediately DTF. A lot of the women in Lima want to be wined and dined before getting dirty. There are a lot of apps to try out here such as Tinder and Happn. Moreover, I was told about Meetme and Scout but didn’t have the time to check it out. If you set up a date on Tinder, ask first from what neighborhood the girl is. Google the neighborhood, and avoid the unsafe areas. In that case, let her come to you instead (which you should do anyway most of the time with online dating).

Plus, give VictoriaMilan’s dating site a shot. At the least you’ll get a good idea how Peruvian girls look before you even arrive. If you like what you see, set up a few dates in advance.

Online Dating Field Report to demonstrate good strategy

My first Peruvian flag was from Tinder. She was very into me from the beginning. Up to that point, I felt I wasted time with a few girls on Tinder who didn’t appreciate more physicality on the first date. So I decided to only date women showing me a lot of interest up front. Good choice. You could date 8 girls who are lukewarm and have 8 mediocre dates. Or you could date 1 girl who is horny for you and have a 100% success ratio. Guess what is the better option. Time is valuable. I’d rather date 1 girl and reject 7 lukewarm girls and have at least 8 to 10 hours more to spend on career, fitness and business.

So I met this girl, and immediately she wanted to hold hands. She was hotter than some of the girls who gave me attitude by not kissing (who I neglected to pre-screen). Her ass was tight. She was a jogger. We made out at a park close to Larcomar shopping center next to the sea. It was hard to keep my hands off her… but the security guard was lurking 10 meters away. I gave in. I couldn’t restrain myself. So I suggested: “let’s get a hotel room”.

The hostel I was staying in was a no-go for guests (my mistake, picked the wrong accommodation). So I looked up a hotel on my phone while sitting and kissing the girl in a park. There was a hotel 5 minutes walking distance away. The girl was down. While walking there she asked: “Do u have protection?”. “Umm yes..”, I replied.

The conversation with the receptionist was a little awkward, but if you have a purpose for that night, then who cares. It was good money for the hotel. While I now had a place to close. I definitely blew my budget for that day several times over. But I got the flag, a new experience, and I can tell a story. It was worth it. This was far from my only success in Lima, but definitely one of my favorites.

Nightgame in Lima

Miraflores Nightlife

The expat girls really stand out in Peru. In Miraflores, it’s not easy in the week to approach a lot of western looking girls. The women look more indigenous. You can try gaming at the bars of the hostels. For example, both Loki and Pariwana have decent hostel bars. Out of these two, Pariwana seemed to be a better choice for accommodation, but Loki definitely had a more fun bar. At the roof of Pariwana it’s easy to “smuggle” in your own cheap supermarket beer IF you are staying there. Most of the time Pariwana doesn’t allow outside guests, either way, it’s only a slightly above average environment for meeting women.

A more quiet place to stay is Kaclla healing dog hostel. They have very comfortable dorms and sell beers at grocery store prices. In Pariwana at night, there were a helluva lot more males than females, while at Kaclla women outnumber men 2:1. Its because men fall for the illusion that a “party hostel” may be a better place to stay and “get laid”. Final conclusion: The best place to stay is an Airbnb that allows you to have visitors and guests.

Loki hostel has a cool party on weekends – although the dancing/clubbing area is a small room. Alcohol is cheaper here. Furthermore, there are more foreigners and backpackers which makes it more fun. The hostel itself gets bad reviews but the bar is completely open to outsiders. This is a young crowd. You can chill here every night, but in the week it’s quiet. During the week you need to know where to go. Pizza street is quiet, with some irritating locals trying to sell you cocaine and strippers. You can definitely still do one or two streetgame approaches here. There’s always one or two attractive girls standing around at night.

Bizarro is a nightclub mostly visited by locals. But it’s loud, noisy and a somewhat dark inside (I prefer clubs with a quiet chill area). I’m sure there’s a lot of potential here after 1 am. It gets busy at 1 am and only closes early morning at maybe about 4h30 am. There are 2 floors and 3 dance rooms. Basically, all the rooms are the same. Not speaking Spanish is a negative. The crowd was older than Loki. You gotta organize free entry somehow otherwise you’d have to pay 50 Soles. Definitely not worth that much at all, but it seemed like a way to get tourists to pay more than the locals.

Secret Insiders Miraflores Tip

Stay at Loki until closing time, now the Loki employee will give you a free stamp for the after-party (for entry into a club like Bizarro). I can verify this after getting my after-party stamp at 3 am on a Saturday night in Loki (found out from a dorm-mate in Pariwana).

Barranco Nightlife

Barranco has a nightlife street similar to Miraflores’ Pizza street. In Barranco, the street is called “Sanchez Carrion”. In the week, at 11 pm, it was as empty as Pizza street. With the occasional party goer standing around. There are many clubs and bars in this street. However, apparently, it only gets busy after midnight (even on a Thursday). Sunday to Wednesday is quiet from what I’ve heard. Weekends are supposedly crazy in a good way.

There’s no face control even in the high-end clubs over here. This means (especially if you’re a gringo) the doorman will invite you in. Even if you’re standing outside on your own. The Point hostel in Barranco has a bar but it wasn’t busy on a Thursday night. Wasn’t that busy on the Friday either. Funnily, after closing time the Friday, instead of heading out to Barranco’s nightlife, the hostel staff took their guests in a taxi to the Miraflores nightlife. This suggests that Miraflores does have the best nightlife in Lima (which I will agree with after my short stay). The Point hostel still looked like a clean and fun place to stay though (with a good party-vibe).

At 11 pm on a Thursday, Ayahuasca seemed like the hippest place in Barranco. But its a sitdown bar. Not a place for pickup necessarily. More a place to chill. Inside it looks like a house with different rooms to sit and drink or eat.

Nightgame Make-Out Rampage in Lima

Having 6 to 7 make outs in a night isn’t the main purpose of game at all. The purpose of game is to find one girl to take home and build something with during the night – but since my bus was leaving the next morning at 7 am, I had fun with this & felt “what the heck why not”.

Here are a few of the make-outs I could recollect by memory: Most of these girls were quite young. When I approached a girl, she would either reciprocate my flirting, or throw one of her cute female friends in my direction. First one, made out, but I realized she was tripping on something. Not enough (at that point) to make her unattractive, but I took note. Her movements were erratic and she was talking in a very uninhibited way. We exchanged some words about having sex. She told her friends that she’s going outside for 20 mins. Once outside she tries to hail a taxi cab. I wasn’t keen on going to a hotel with a girl who’s clearly on some drug… if she was sober, well yes I would’ve gotten in the cab with her. Why not. I tell the cab driver to keep on driving we’re not getting in. This girl puts me off when she takes out her phone & starts talking into the device. But the phone is off. She must be hallucinating – surely this is a drug stronger than marijuana? I say screw this I’m going to find a sober chick.

Back inside I get a can of beer, my first for the night. I’m also considering going to bed & getting more sleep. But I decide to see where this can go. Its a matter of minutes (or seconds) before I say hello to another girl.. “Do you like to dance”. Her face gives her away, she wants to. I start dancing with her. Go for the make out. Nice. She’s very attractive and sober. After a while her attention drifts away to the group she was originally with. She leaves. And I find another girl.. make out again.. this ain’t even a huge pub. I spin her a couple of times on the dance floor. Still having a can of beer in my free hand. I take a few last gulps, and I notice another girl I like better.. Dance and kiss… This one doesn’t wanna dance too close and sensual immediately, apart from making-out. I don’t care I want a second beer (which was also my last for the night). I buy one, and turn my head – she’s making out with another guy. Free for all apparently. …So I simply grab another chick. I let her drink from my beer. This one is an especially hot European girl. She plays a little hard to get as her friend leers on, while still enjoying the make-out. I don’t know what happened. We were dancing apart for a while, when I noticed her friend glancing at me. Dancing with her friend first, raised my Sexual Market Value with all the other girls in that small circle. Now the friend wanted me instead.

Opener, Hook, Dance, Spin, Make-out. This one is giving me plenty of tongue, more than all the others. Good IOI (Indicator Of Interest). At some point, we go to a dark corner in the club, and my hand slips below her pants. She likes it. So my hand keeps on slipping deeper. Let’s just say there are plenty of benefits to having long arms. You can reach places that.. otherwise, would be a problem. At some point, the girl feels brave enough to slip her hand into my pants as well, in the corner of a packed club. I get unexpected help from people around me as they shield us from the view of security guards. Things get quite heated… She’s very attractive so I stick with her the rest of the night until I leave to shower and pack my bags for my bus ride. I only got some sleep once I was on the bus at 7am – making my way to Paracas, Huacachina, Arequipa and Cusco. In conclusion, more wise words: get an Airbnb or hotel room instead of a hostel.

Lima Daygame

Daygame in Lima isn’t great if you prefer western looking girls. However, you can do a few approaches every day if you’re patient and go looking for someone to talk to. In addition, if you stay in hostels, there’s a lot of potential for hostel game. In the daytime, daygame is almost non-existent (unless it is weekend). The women work in the day. The best time would be around lunch-time or in the evening after 5 pm, but before it gets dark.

Barranco is more chilled for daygame. The females walking here look visibly more relaxed. In Miraflores a lot of the women wear business suits and have more serious faces. While Barranco has bohemian girls and tourists strolling around. It’s as safe as Miraflores. Still, it’s not like in the first world where western looking girls cross your path all the time. It’s better than nothing.

If you venture deeper into central Lima (at your own risk, some areas are extremely dangerous), you may find better daygame, who knows. Plus, do the free walking tours to get to know Downtown Lima and Barranco better, and get a more thorough understanding of the city. The walking tours are the best “daygame” activities you could possibly do to meet attractive women in the day in Lima. Although this will mostly be fellow tourists.

Wingmen

Meeting wingmen in Lima from the seduction community was difficult. I got blocked from a PUA group simply for reaching out to meet up with potential wings. This is obviously a terrible attitude when you could learn a lot from a foreign PUA.

The solution was to join the Couchsurfing community WhatsApp group. You’ll find a lot of mates this way with good attitudes. Lastly, you’ll meet plenty of wingmen in the hostels, as well.

In the end, the PUA group that blocked me did me a favor, because although I’ve had success gaming solo in the past, this trip to Lima helped me master solo game, while getting some awesome results. Some classic stoic wisdom to part with:

Everything in life happens for you, and not against you.

To improve your chances of having a good experience in Lima, learn a few useful Spanish phrases to charm local Peruvian women. Grab a copy of Pickup Spanish to master Spanish flirting as taught by experienced Latin American travelers.

If you’ve already visited Lima, what did you think about the seduction scene? Do you have any tips or questions for gringos visiting this city? Drop some comments below.

7 thoughts on “The Nice Guy’s Guide to Meeting Women in Lima, Peru”

  1. Analysis on Lima girls is spot on. I think the pandemic has made it worse as I was here 6 years and it was DTF from the get go. Nowadays seems pay for play. Meaning, they want that cool seaside spot/restaurant etc, then after a club or whatever. However the joke is one you if you do this. This type of girl rarely puts out. They are happy to say goodbye after the bill is paid. The park or coffee, then have fun is the way to go. Screen for this. Disregard this advice at you peril lol.

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    • Haha great point.

      Thanks for the comment.

      I agree, if you over-invest in the first date, then its game over for you.

      It’s always better to “under-invest” in date 1.

      Save the fancy stuff for after she proved herself “worthy”.

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      • I do want to make one last observation about Lima Peru. If you are foreign you are exotic and if you are Blonde blue eyes you are even more so and the preference of the the girls in general, so you have your foot in the door so to speak. Having said this, the looks alone will NOT sway them like it does in the USA or Europe to have the bedroom fun that most are expecting. In the USA/Europe, it’s small talk,cheap drinks that sometimes the girl will even pay or split and then they make it obvious they are interested(ONS is common). The Peruvian girls are doing some kind of soft Gold digging and if one does go down this route as I have experienced, one would assume based on good chatting and flirting that a kiss at least is guaranteed. However this is further from the truth. I’ve had girls very into me(so I thought) followed by no kiss or I try to kiss them and they turn away. Mind you, in the USA it’s game on and the girls in the USA even make it easy to touch and kiss them. Peruvian girls are an odd bunch and the wining and Dining you have described is absolutely 100% correct and even then it’s up to them and not your looks, flirting or anything. Another thing that is annoying is that they usually think a mid week date is not a date and are usually not down.

        So lets make this assumption, Lets say you set up a date every day of the week except for Monday and Tuesday and you go to a restaurant and drinks after. Please know I do not do this, I’m simply pointing out that the top tier will expect this. You could easily spend 50 to 100 USD to go on a specific date a day. This is $250-$500 a week on dates that usually go nowhere or the percentage chance is quite low. Second dates are common but again, another venue and more money for no guarantee. My point is I’m 100% certain that the remote work phenom that has taken place since the pandemic has absolutely destroyed the dating scene in Lima Peru. The remote workers(No Offense) are quite beta and think Money gets them sex. This mindset sets a standard for the local population.

        I was in Lima in 2018 and it was Gold, fun and simple. However it’s 2023 and Lima peru(probably all of peru) is a cluster fuck. Advice—-go Learn Portuguese and Go to Brazil and there you will find Girls not expecting lavish dates and actually are Sexual.
        Cheers,

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        • Thanks for the comment.

          I see you posted another comment where you claimed I deleted this comment.
          I didn’t delete anything. I take a day or 2 to approve the comments. We get a ton of spam in the comments, thus we are forced to moderate and manually approve every comment. Any decent programmer can make a bot to spam my site with the same dumb sh#t they post on 1000’s of other sites. But you put some thought into you comment, which I really do appreciate.

          Please be patient with moderation in future, and keep commenting 🙂

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  2. Haha,,You deleted my comment meant to help others. Looks like telling the truth is not what you want here. Just the fantasy lol. Typical for these days.
    I see why your site kinda sucks. Good luck suppressing the truth.
    I’ll make sure I tell others to stay away from this site.

    Delete away

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    • lol
      You draw conclusions too quickly. As I mentioned in my other comment, I simply take 24 to 48 hours to approve every comment manually, due to the high amounts of incoherent blog-spam which other blogs also get. Spam is the reason why some sites simply deactivate their comment section. But I keep my comments active as I don’t mind moderating the comments every +- 2 days.

      I hope you don’t apply the “quick to draw the wrong conclusions” mentality to the women you date.
      I’ve done this in the past myself, once or twice, which I regret. But otherwise, keep commenting. One wrong conclusion is human. Simply work on the positivity.

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      • My apologies to You guy. I thought you deleted my in depth comments. My bad.
        However I still stand by my assessment about Lima Girls and probably Peru in general.
        Cheers

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